Thursday, August 14, 2008

Happy Birthday John!!!

My baby turned NINE today!!!!




"Hmmm... what will my wish be?"

Brian has carried on a tradition from his childhood. He gives the kids birthday spankings, but the catch is they have to count while he does it. If they mess up (because he went too fast, or because he acts like he's going to spank him but doesn't and they count anyway, or just because he's pretending they messed up) he starts all over. Amidst tons of giggles, this ritual takes approximately forever, and they absolutely love it:


John may be getting a bit big for this...



John, you are a wonderful boy. We enjoy you so much. Thank you for being so sweet and kind, and for bringing so much joy into our home. You're smart, caring, thoughtful, and funny. We love you very, very much!

Tuesday, August 12, 2008

Book Blurb: Three Cups of Tea


My post about this book will be a little different from my other book blurbs. I'm going to start with the blurb, and add my thoughts at the bottom:

"In 1993 Mortenson was descending from his failed attempt to reach the peak of K2, the world’s second highest mountain. Exhausted and disoriented, he wandered away from his group into the most desolate reaches of northern Pakistan. Alone, without food, water, or shelter he eventually stumbled into an impoverished Pakistani village where he was nursed back to health.

While recovering he observed the village’s 84 children sitting outdoors, scratching their lessons in the dirt with sticks. The village was so poor that it could not afford the $1-a-day salary to hire a teacher. When he left the village, he promised that he would return to build them a school.
From that rash, heartfelt promise grew one of the most incredible humanitarian campaigns of our time: Greg Mortenson’s one-man mission to counteract extremism and terrorism by building schools—especially for girls—throughout the breeding ground of the Taliban.

Mortenson had no reason to believe he could fulfill his promise. In an early effort to raise money he wrote letters to 580 celebrities, businessmen, and other prominent Americans. His only reply was a $100 check from NBC’s Tom Brokaw. Selling everything he owned, he still only raised $2,000. But his luck began to change when a group of elementary school children in River Falls, Wisconsin, donated $623 in pennies, thereby inspiring adults to take his cause more seriously. Twelve years later he’s built fifty-five schools.

Mortenson and award-winning journalist David Oliver Relin have written a spellbinding account of his incredible accomplishments in a region where Americans are feared and hated. In pursuit of his goal, Mortenson has survived an armed kidnapping, fatwas issued by enraged mullahs, repeated death threats, and wrenching separations from his wife and children. Yet his success speaks for itself. This year the schools will educate 24,000 children."

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This book had me enthralled from the very beginning. Greg's story is simply amazing. The way he started on this journey to begin with, and the way he struggled to get that first school built, was inspiring. While at first I really had to concentrate to keep the foreign names and cities straight (I bookmarked the map near the front for easy reference), it was worth it. The people and culture of Pakistan are fascinating. And not at all what I expected. That story alone makes the book worth reading.

Near the end of the book, as the events surrounding September 11 take center stage, I began to see the connection between what Greg's doing and the war on terror. While he had spent several hard years just to get a handful of schools going, the Taliban (heavily funded by Saudi oil) sprouted up dozens upon dozens of their own "schools" in the course of just one year. These madrassas were everywhere, teaching extremist doctrine to poor people who had literally no other options or resources.

The madrassas are successful because the students are so often people with zero education, and therefore easily led down the Taliban's path. To call these madrassas a "school" is a stretch. The Taliban often forbids reading any book except the Koran. When the Taliban took over Afghanistan before 9/11, they held public book burnings. Even the medical school in the capital city of Kabul was forbidden textbooks, and Taliban guards monitored classrooms to make sure they did not so much as put anatomical drawings on the chalkboard.

These medical students in Afghanistan realized what was happening, and resented it. But the impoverished young men from the rural villages of Pakistan, with little or no education, were easy targets for the Taliban. The effects of their "schooling" continues to this day, to everyone's detriment. While reading about the events which took place in Pakistan and Afghanistan in the year leading up to 9/11, it was easy to see the critical importance of education for these poor communities. (For more information, the website http://www.threecupsoftea.com/ is a great site to visit, as well as the Central Asia Institute, which is the organization Greg operates to get these schools built.)

The majority of the book, however, focuses on the small scale events, long before 9/11 ever took place. I came to have such an affection for the Americans and Pakistanis who made the dream of these schools a reality.

This book touched me on so many different levels. It made me want to do more, somehow, for this world I live in. I'm still struggling to figure out what that means for a stay-at-home mom of three. Not all of us can be Greg Mortenson. But I don't believe we have to be. I think we're each supposed to figure out what we are meant to do. As I think about what it took to get those schools built, I realize that aid came from many people, in ways both large and small. And it was all needed. I think that's probably true for any humanitarian effort, whether it be building schools in Pakistan or serving the needy in our own communities. Something quoted in the book comes to mind:

"We ourselves feel that what we are doing is just a drop in the ocean. But the ocean would be less because of that missing drop." - Mother Teresa

No one can fill the ocean on their own, not even Greg Mortenson. So what is my drop supposed to be? I believe raising my boys is the number one thing I can do so they can go out into the world and be productive citizens. But is there something else I should be doing? If there is, wouldn't it teach my children to think beyond themselves as well? (Greg Mortenson's parents were humanitarians too.)

I don't think I have to do anything "grand," but at the same time it's so easy to do nothing because what we can do feels too small to make a difference. How do I hang onto this fire, and turn it into action?

Here's another quote from the book that makes me think:


"When your heart speaks, take good notes."

Judith Campbell


What is my heart telling me?

Monday, August 11, 2008

"Mom, R2-D2 looks funny."

That's what Ben said to me upon seeing this:






I said, "No honey, that's Artoo-Potatoo."

Something about the way that sounded outloud just cracked me up!

First Day of School!!!!

Well, it's actually here. Holy Week be praised, I'm actually ready! I'm so glad we took some time to just slow down before school started. Beginning with registration and shopping for school supplies last week, we've all been excited about school starting. That's how it's supposed to be! :)

One of the reasons I love the first day of school is because I have NO problems getting them ready. About five minutes after they wake up, they're dressed and ready to go. John even wore his backpack to the breakfast table, LOL! Anyway, here are the pics. I was just going to do a group shot, but they wanted individual ones too. For the first time, it's not my fault that there's too many pictures on here! :)






Friday, August 8, 2008

Let the Games Begin!

"A lifetime of training, for just 10 seconds."
-Jesse Owens, 1936


Some years I'm into the Olympics, and some years I'm not. This year, I'm INTO it and cannot wait to see the opening ceremonies! I have a TV schedule printed out with my favorite events highlighted: gymnastics (of course!), swimming, diving, and track. I don't know how much of this I'll be able to watch in the end, but I'm ready. As for tonight, I'm making pizza and letting the kids stay up late. Let the games begin!!

Thursday, August 7, 2008

Brian's New Office... almost!

Brian's company is building a new office for the Phoenix branch, something I've been hearing about for months now. Brian's had a heavy hand in the whole thing, from picking the location to laying out the offices to getting bids for phone service. The warehouse will be three times as big as the location they have now, and I think the office space is expanding by even more than that. Even though everyone will be glad when the move is over, the whole thing has been pretty exciting. The other day the kids and I drove down to have lunch with Brian and go take a tour.

We got to drive straight into the warehouse to park. I don't know why, but I thought that was cool. :) The warehouse is too big for me to get it all in one shot, but here's most of it:




Brian showed us each room (I think this is the breakroom below, with freshly-laid tile) and the kids were excited about everything they saw. Even the bathrooms. But I didn't take pictures of those. :)

This is the new dispatch office, with a window leading to the warehouse. Not quite four years ago, Brian started as a dispatcher. Two years later he had worked his way up to Operations Manager. But not that I'm bragging on him. ;)

The highlight of the tour was Brian's new office. Check out those windows! This is slightly bigger than his old office, and has more in the window department too.

Thanks to a mistake by the builders, Brian's office is actually a little bit bigger than the GM's office. It was not supposed to be that way. As soon as Brian found out about it, he was going to have the builder fix it even though it meant moving a wall. His boss, ever the sport, said not to bother because he doesn't care. But he knows Brian feels badly, so he's been having fun teasing him about it. :)

Here, Brian is showing us how the warehouse is going to be divided and organized - also his arena.

Okay, here's the bonus. See the big bay doors here?

The warehouse has a total of 7 bay doors. The two on each end you can drive into the way we did with our van. The middle three, the closed doors in this picture, are deep bays for semis to back into. This is a feature their current warehouse doesn't have, so Brian had fun showing us this next part.

He had John pull on a chain to get this metal section to raise up.

Then he had John stand on it to try to get it to go back down again:

John wasn't heavy enough, so Brian had to help him with his foot. It went down FAST!!

John didn't mind though:


Ben tried to lift the panel too, but wasn't strong enough, so Brian and John took turns raising and lowering it over and over again. The kids all thought this was great. It took a little persuasion, but before we left we finally convinced Ben and Chris to get on it so they could ride it down too. Once they were there, they were feeling pretty brave!



And the other side...


Not as much fun. :)

Wednesday, August 6, 2008

Best APOD Ever!



Love, love, love this picture from Astronomony Picture of the Day. Not only is it gorgeous, but it's red. What more could I want?

A cool name perhaps. This close up of a star-forming region has the unfortunate name of IC 1396 H-Alpha. I mean, that's no fun.


A least this little guy has an awesome name, Horsehead Nebula. Now that's what I'm talking about:



I think the reason I like these pictures is because it's like looking at a work of art... straight from God's canvas.

Tuesday, August 5, 2008

Book Blurb: The Last Lecture



There's a tradition at some universities for professors to deliver what's called a "Last Lecture." They're supposed to imagine that it's the last lecture they'll ever give. When Rancy Pausch was asked to give his last lecture, he knew it really would be just that. He had been diagnosed with terminal pancreatic cancer, and had only months to live.

Perhaps you've already heard about this - apparently it's been all over the news - but I live in my own little world over here so I didn't hear about it until last Saturday. Katy showed me her copy when Brian and I picked up the kids, and told me I could borrow it after her mom . Well, Sunday we go to Brian's parents' house for Fast Sunday dinner, and I see the book sitting on the counter. Kathy's next to have it. I understand that. But it can't hurt to pick it up and just read the first few pages, right?

Three hours later, I was done.

I guess that's how you weasel your way to the front of the line. Hee hee.

Anyway, it's an amazing book, full of optimism and advice on how to live a great life. More than that, it's about chasing your childhood dreams. I loved all the little nuggets of wisdom in it. I think my favorite was the story about his childhood football coach, wherein it is demonstrated that you don't give a child self esteem, rather, self esteem is something a child earns. I've witnessed the truth of this with my own children.

If you want to watch the lecture and learn more about Randy, go to the website here.

Friday, August 1, 2008

Scouting on Vacation

Did I say three-in-one vacation? I really meant four-in-one vacation. Before we left for the trip, I flipped through John's scout book and belt loop requirements, to see if there'd be anything we could do while we were up there. I figured there might be a few outdoor-type opportunities we don't normally get in the city.

I knew Brian planned to take the boys fishing, so I wrote down a couple things they could work on if they wanted to (like proficiency in casting a line, and cleaning a fish if they caught one). So they were able to do that. Turns out John is pretty good at casting!

I also thought it'd be fun to go stargazing. I love how you can see so many stars when you're high up and away from city lights like that. I've always wanted to learn more than the basic constellations (the north star and the dippers were all I knew). When I saw locating five constallations was a scout activity you could do, that was the final bit of motivation to get me to really do it. I checked out a few astronomy books from the library before we left and we took them along. Unfortunately, we had a full moon while up there and the light from the moon was really bright all week long. So some of the smaller stars weren't visible. But I had a lot of fun taking my boys and my sister's boys out into a clearing Saturday night to look for constellations. They loved it too. Ryan kept asking to go again, but there was too much cloud cover every night after that.

I didn't write any other scouting requirements down. Since I had just gone through all that material though, it was fresh in my mind and I just tried to jump on opportunities when they presented themselves. I told John that talking to a ranger about what they do was one of the things he could do for scouts. So after ranger Cindy at the Tusayan ruins was finished swearing the boys in as Junior Rangers, John asked her some questions. We learned a lot of interesting things about what rangers do. She started as a volunteer the year before, but they invited her back this year to do tours. She's up there something like six months out of the year. I'd love to do something like that when I'm retirement age!

Something unexpected was coming across the observatory. Visiting an observatory is an option for earning the Astronomy pin. I don't know if John has to go inside one to make it count, or if talking with the person who worked there was good enough. In any case he's still have to do a report. I still have to ask Anna about it (if she doesn't read the blog first, I guess, LOL). But either way, the observatory was a neat experience for him.

Another thing he could do was visit a fish hatchery. Brian knew there was one near Payson somewhere, so we planned on stopping there if we had time and energy on the way home. It turns out we did NOT have time or energy on the way home, so that didn't get done. Oh well. LOL!

For one of the awards John was trying to earn, he has to do a wildlife conservation project. Little did we know we'd find an opportunity for this right at our campground. When we were driving around deciding on a site, this is what we saw:





Now who does a thing like this, I ask you? I asked John if he wanted to make cleaning this up his service project. He said yes. (Don't worry, we would have cleaned it up anyway.) While we worked, we asked him why something like this is harmful to the little critters who live here. (I wanted to make sure he understood what this had to do with wildlife conservation.) I didn't need to worry. He answered my questions no problem.



Ben had to stop and show me his loose tooth. I swear this thing has been trying to fall out all summer!




We bagged up and hauled out the glass and aluminum, but burned the paper products (no different from using newspaper for kindling in your fire, for any staunch environmentalists out there). ;)

I meant to take a totally finished "after" picture, but forgot. You get the idea though. Looks a lot better, doesn't it?

Anyway, we got a LOT more scout stuff done than I thought we would, and none of it was stressful or anything. Encouraging kids to get scout stuff done is pretty easy, I've decided, as long as I'm familiar with what's in the book and zero in on stuff that matches John's and our family's interests. It's been a good experience for all of us.

Brian's Fish

The day we were set to leave, Brian decided to get up extra early and go fishing by himself. Look what he brought back!



I think this was literally the highlight of his trip! When he was telling me about catching it, I was soooo wishing I could have seen his reaction!



Course, the next step is cleaning it, and Brian taught John how to do this. Sorry if this grosses anyone out, but look at all the eggs in this thing!


Brian put the eggs in the fire, and when they burned they'd pop! It was cool!




Anyway, here are a couple of shots of John's first time cleaning a fish (all the boys were fascinated, can you tell?):




Ta-da!



The chef of the house got John liking fish LONG ago, so these two really enjoyed having fish for breakfast!

The Clubhouse

Across the dirt path from the main campsite, was this cluster of trees:





Pretty much ALL day Saturday, my boys and their two boy cousins played here. They called it their clubhouse - no girls allowed! They even had a password, but I got John to tell me what it was in private. Brian got Ryan (the oldest boy cousin) to privately tell him the password too, then Brian went up to the other boys and pretended to "guess" it by reading their minds. It was funny to watch those boys exclaim "How'd you know???" while Brian and Ryan exchanged conspiratorial smiles.



At one point, I decided to go check out the clubhouse myself, and they all came out to greet me:



Er, I mean, to defend their secret lair!!!!





Hee hee. Pretty funny. When they were done "attacking" me, they gave me a tour. LOL. I didn't take pictures that time, but right before we left I had John and Ben take me through again so I could get pics.




This is the central tree (probably parent tree to all the saplings around it), who they named "Big Bumpy."






This little alcove is Ben's "jumping room."




And John's





There were also offices, a blacksmith shop, and a jail. The whole thing was totally cool, and it made me wish I were a little kid again so I could play too.